Why is it we always fall for our best friends?

• Is it because we know we can trust them?
• Is it because we know them so well?
• Is it because of the way they know exactly what's going on in our heads?
• Or is it because they are there any day, anytime,anywhere without the promise of kisses, intimate touches or whispered sentiments of love?

I think we love them because they are there even when there is nothing in it for them except for that little glimmer of hope that maybe someday there will be.....

Someone once taught me a deeper level of friendship. She made me realise my mistakes, and capabilites. I felt the need to perform just to prove to her. I felt that i could trust her with all my secrets and stories. Just talking to her used to make me feel secure and comforting. I could feel her worries for me. She was always there to listen to my problems. She was a better friend to me than any i had met until then. I used to get worried every time she was unwell or even if she wouldnt answer my calls. Just knowing she was happy with somethin use to make me feel happy. I wondered at times, if this was friendship or something else. If i actually was falling in love with this person or was it just a feeling of caring towards a friend. It's a feeling i shall have with me for a life time. All i wanted her to know was that this was something which i did not expect in return. Even if she doesnt care, i shall always be there.

I have heard people say that Love is based on friendship, she told me that love w/o friendship is like fire without oxygen, even though it may light for now but later on it will collapse. Those moments in life where ur love may not be the same, ur friendship will get u thru.

Well if friendship is the foundation of love, and that true love is based on true friendship, then is it wrong to love your best friend ?

Love

9th sept 2008
I am not a Blogger expert so this might nt meet the format or standard of a Great Blog. Neither am i an expert at psychology or love to be writting this but, i just felt like so,


Generally people in our age group keep wondering what is love.
I SAY THIS : The Diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings Involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define.

No one is ever sure when they are in love. You look at a person in your college. Someone who is fair good looking, or some other quality of that person and u feel that u are in love with that person.
Every Crush or infatuation is felt like love at that moment. Later on you feel it to be just a feeling forgotten.

Another point i have come across being a guy is that every guy says "it is very difficult to understand girls" even i do and have heard all my friends say the same. But when you come tho think of it, its just a reason used my most guys to satisfy them self morally for not being able to understand the other person.

We always try to view things from our own point of view and never see it as how the other person would think.

I haven't found anyone yet whom i could say that i Love them, but i have come across this feeling a lot of times when i felt i was in LOVE. but when you think about it for a moment forgetting the point that u love the other person u shall realise how wrong u may be.

Maybe all i say now might seem stupid later to me - who cares ..... As for now i stand on my words at least until i find someone. :)

That is one Excuse 2 get a holiday from job for sure .......

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